We’re not the Faster-than-the-Speed-of-Light generation anymore. We’re not even the Next-new-thing generation. We’re are the Soon-to-be-obsolete-kids and we’ve crowded in here to hide from the future and the past. We know what’s up – the future looms straight ahead like a black wrought-iron gate and the past is charging after us like a badass Doberman, only this one doesn’t have any letup in him.
-Tim Tharp, The Spectacular Now
What’s the worst thing that will happen if you go after a dream? You’ll fail? So you fail. Like that doesn’t happen all the time anyway. So you fail at something that counts. There’s a concept.
How old were you when you decided failure was a bad thing? When we’re young, we’re taught that accomplishment includes making mistakes, and failure is just a natural part of a process.
First love is bit reckless. You throw everything in with pure passion without any hesitation. But it is also very beautiful and memorable. The reason it is so beautiful is because you are unconditional and innocent. And because it comes with inexplicable feeling that you can never experience again. Because you can never go back to that young, passionate time of your days.
You started off as friends, then became first lovers, then as a couple. And now as a husband and wife. You shared the same dreams and created memories together. There is a comfort in knowing that…a familiar excitement. It is such a special and rare thing to have. It is beginning of the endless possibilities, hopes and dreams.
Congratulations on becoming Mrs. Shah!
Don’t look for answers. Right answer and wrong answer co-exist in every opportunity, in every decision in life. No matter what answer you end up choosing, you might have lingering attachment to the answer you didn’t choose. It’s normal I guess. There is no such things as right answer in life. All you have to do believe the path you chose is the right path and live without having regrets.
Your soulmate is not someone that comes into your life peacefully. It is who comes to make you question things, who changes your reality, somebody that marks a before and after in your life. It is not the human begin everyone has idealized, but an ordinary person who manages to revolutionized your world in a second…